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JPII Honors Sacrifice and Service with Moving Missing Man Ceremony

A powerful tribute led by Marine Master Sergeant Jason Schowalter reminds the JPII community of the cost of freedom

In a solemn and stirring observance following school Mass, the John Paul II Catholic School community gathered to reflect, remember, and pray during a special Missing Man Ceremony, led by Marine Master Sergeant Jason Schowalter, who also serves as a coach for the JPII middle school football and baseball teams.

The event was held in recognition of National Military Appreciation Month, and served as a powerful reminder of the brave men and women in uniform—especially those who are Prisoners of War (POW) or Missing in Action (MIA)—whose sacrifice continues to echo through the hearts of their families, their comrades, and our nation.

A symbolic table stood at the center of the ceremony, its carefully chosen elements telling a story of honor, loss, and enduring hope.

  • A white tablecloth represented the purity of our service members' motives, volunteers from every branch.

  • A single empty chair stood for the missing service member—an unknown face we are each called to remember.

  • A Bible lay open, reminding us of our faith and the prayers whispered nightly for every soul not yet home.

  • A slice of lemon served as a bitter reminder of the ordeal endured, while a sprinkling of salt symbolized the tears shed by loved ones.

  • A black napkin conveyed the heavy sorrow of hearts left behind.

  • A red rose honored the families who bear their own burdens of pain and waiting.

  • A purple heart medal recognized those wounded or killed in combat.

  • And a reversed wine glass spoke volumes—the missing cannot join us in the toast, so we raise ours in their honor.

  • A lit candle stood as the flickering flame of hope for a joyous reunion.

“As a Marine, this table speaks to more than tradition—it’s a promise,” said Master Sergeant Schowalter. “We remember them not just as soldiers or sailors, but as sons, daughters, parents, and friends. The Missing Man Table is a full circle of remembrance—one that we must never let fade.”

JPII Principal Heather Rembold, herself part of a military family, expressed gratitude for the ceremony and the powerful witness it brought to students. “This was more than a lesson in patriotism—it was a call to compassion,” Mrs. Rembold shared. “Our students were deeply moved. At JPII, we’re committed to raising faith-filled leaders who understand the value of service and the sacredness of sacrifice.”

The ceremony, anchored in reverence and reflection, left the community unified in prayer for those still missing and for their families who continue to wait. As candles flickered and students bowed their heads, the message was clear: We will not forget.